The Key to Changing Your Diet for Good

by Mandi on January 20, 2012

key to diet changes

source: Pablo Gómez

This month’s Eat Well, Spend Less topic is food resolutions!

While many of my fellow bloggers will be sharing specific tips for various goals & resolutions — everything from involving kids in the kitchen to wasting less food — I thought I’d share something a little bit different:

What if I told you there was one key that held the secret to actually changing your diet for good?

It’s not really a secret formula or hiring a personal chef or choosing the “right” diet.

No, what I learned from our experiencing transitioning our youngest daughter to a gluten-, dairy-, soy-free diet was that the key to successfully making any diet change is to have a comprehensive list of food you can eat…that you actually want to eat.

This principle applies whether you want to participate in a Daniel fast, eliminate white sugar, go Paleo, try the 80-10-10 raw diet or any number of other dietary changes.

No matter what change you’re trying to make, you’re almost destined to fail if you focus simply on what you can’t eat rather than what you can.

And really, the same principle applies whether you’re making a huge lifestyle shift or simply trying to eliminate high fructose corn syrup or processed foods from your diet.

Perhaps even more importantly, your list of can-eat foods must grow with time. No one wants to be stuck eating the same meals over and over with no variation, so seeking out new recipes and snack ideas on a regular basis is an important part of sticking with a diet.

We’re actually planning a sugar detox for our family very soon. I had intended to do it for all of January but because I truly believe this is the key, I’ve been reluctant to actually say we’re going sugar free until I have time to sit down with the whole family to make a list of meals and snacks to get us through a month without sugar. January started out so busy — with sickness, visiting family and traveling — that I simply didn’t have time to focus on making the list, and I knew it was pointless to try to make such a huge shift in our eating habits without a firm plan in place.

I’ve created a food goals printable for myself you to use to make your own can-eat list. Here are some things to think about as you’re filling it out, no matter what your food resolution may be:

  • What foods does your family already eat and enjoy that fit this new diet or lifestyle?
  • Be sure to add quick and easy options for busy days/weeks.
  • Look for portable meal and snack ideas for when you’re on the go.
  • Include frugal meal options as well so that the change doesn’t break your budget!
  • As your searching for recipes, be sure to write down any sources you come across that contain lots of recipes so that you can refer back to them from time to time for new ideas!

Click here to print or download the food goals printable.

What are your food resolutions for 2012? Have you seen this principle play out in your own food journey?

Mandi Ehman is the founder and publisher behind Life Your Way and the co-author of All in Good Time, as well as a wife and the homeschooling mom to four beautiful girls. She lives with her family on a little slice of heaven in wild, wonderful West Virginia and loves coffee, chocolate, easy meals, beautiful things and minimalist spaces.

  • KarinaHouse

    Good point, and great resource. Thanks for making it available to us! My husband has been working hard to lose weight for 3 weeks now, and I’m starting to feel a little bored with the limitations. This will help!

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

      I’m so glad it came at the right time for you, Karina!

  • http://joyceandnorm.wordpress.com Joyce and Norm

    I guess we’re on the same page. We are doing this sometime during the weekend. I have a box full of recipes, but I need to find the ones that work for us.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

      Going sugar free, you mean? If so, I’d love to hear how it goes for you!

      • http://joyceandnorm.wordpress.com Joyce and Norm

        Oops, I meant working on our can-eat foods list. I would love to be eating less sugar though, but my hubby’s family have a sweet tooth, so we have treats from time to time. We don’t drink juice (except for hubby and his family, who seem to think that fruit juice = fruit), or eat candy. But I know there are hidden sugars in some foods. Let me know if there are other resources out there for this kind of diet.

  • http://www.momdropbox.com Audrey

    Love this Mandi!  I agree that shifting to better foods is the way to go to leave out the deprivation.  I have been forced to make changes with sugary foods due to big blood sugar swings, and it’s getting easier as I figure out better replacement options.

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  • http://livingthebalancedlife.com Bernice Wood

    We have been working on this as well. We are eating a diet mainly of fruits and veggies, with a little meat and whole grains thrown in. By doing an elimination diet, we narrowed down that hubby has a sensitivity to dairy which has evidently been the cause of his sleep apnea for years. I have cooked using milk for years, and we love cheese too. I have been trying to find things that he can eat instead, such as a goat cheese cheddar and he likes almond milk. 
    Cutting out processed convenience foods was hard. I am still searching for some easy whole food meals that I can cook quickly. We actually ate oatmeal for dinner last night, with nuts and almond milk!
    Bernice
    The dreaded question, “Mom, what’s for dinner?”

  • http://www.peasinablog.com/ Katie

    this is a great attitude to have (not always so easy…), but it’s super helpful. especially when it comes to going to the grocery store! we don’t have a list written down–but I’m sure when we have kids it’ll be helpful. especially to give them options for snacks! 

  • PMcNulty

    I just found this page, and at a good time.   I’m a noncompiant diabetic just diagnosed with stage 3 Renal Disease.   A complete diet do-over with the emphasis on what I can eat sounds so much more positive than a total focus on what I cannot eat.   Loved your sunset picture.   We also get beautiful sunsets looking across the Ohio River.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

      Thanks so much and good luck to you as you make those changes; I know it won’t be easy, but you can do it!

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  • http://www.lillepunkin.com/ Melissa@Mom’s Plans

    Thanks for the great advice.  I have been dairy and soy free for a year now, but I still have wait to lose, so this train of thought will also be helpful for improving my diet and losing weight.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

      Good luck, Melissa — you CAN do it!

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  • Tracy

    Very helpful information. I’ve come to the same conclusion with trying to change our diet – without enough recipes of foods that we can & LIKE to eat, it’s so easy to want to give up (that and the extraordinary amount of dirty dishes I create making fresh food all the time!) I am going sugar free, except honey & only in very small amounts. I’m trying to switch us all over to gluten-free and have considered going dairy-free, too.

  • jenlwilcox

    I love your idea of making a list of what you can eat.  I am at the tail end of a pantry challenge and feeling like I have nothing to feed my family.  I almost caved this weekend and headed for the store.  BUT I decided to really analyze where we were at and make a list of the foods we would be eating through Tuesday.  it worked!  I have plenty on hand (even milk!) to get us through until Feb 1st because I sat down and planned out what we would be eating.  It really does work!

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

      Yay — so glad it worked for you!

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  • Peggy

    I recently came across a recipe for Snickerdoodle milkshake.  It used a ripe banana, sprinkle of cinnamon, about a cup of water or milk and several ice cubes.  Blend up till smooth.  It has a flavor similar to snicker doodle  cookies.  I enjoy it when I am craving something sweet and still want it to be healthy.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life Your Way

      Yum, Peggy — thanks for sharing!

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